{"id":280,"date":"2014-08-25T04:21:42","date_gmt":"2014-08-25T10:21:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rachelbock.com\/blog\/?p=280"},"modified":"2014-08-25T04:21:42","modified_gmt":"2014-08-25T10:21:42","slug":"and-occasionally-rough-waters-appear","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rachelbock.com\/blog\/and-occasionally-rough-waters-appear\/","title":{"rendered":"And Occasionally Rough Waters Appear"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So, if you&#8217;ve been following along in this exciting journey, you know we talked recently about charting your course.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Setting Sail<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><del>As sometimes happens,<\/del> More often than not, once you&#8217;ve decided what you are moving towards and start moving that way, &#8220;stuff happens.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Having a plan and taking action isn&#8217;t enough.  In today&#8217;s world of high tech systems, there are so many moving parts that make up our wide world. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Technical Difficulties<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For example, using a computer connected to an internet service provider that then connects to Facebook&#8217;s game&#8217;s app is an amazing system.  And it works&#8230; most of the time.<\/p>\n<p>When it doesn&#8217;t work&#8230; Can I just say, &#8220;Arg?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Then What?<\/strong><br \/>\nWell, there are options to choose from.  Consider the following choices.  What action would you choose?<\/p>\n<li> Give up.  It&#8217;s easier to blame a computer than to say that you don&#8217;t understand how to do it to get the results that &#8220;real&#8221; internet marketers can accomplish.<\/li>\n<li>Hire someone to come look at the computer and later realize that it was a waste of money.<\/li>\n<li>Call the service providers and wait on hold if you can get through to the right service department to get the problem figured out.<\/li>\n<li>Pray to the powers that be that the ghosts in the machines will allow your computer to be one island of sanctuary to be a place where you can have the joy of having a dream<\/li>\n<li>Grab a hammer and say &#8220;Goodbye forever!&#8221; to your computer.<\/li>\n<li>Quote The Raven.<\/li>\n<li>Take a deep breathe and think.<\/li>\n<p>Please note, in case you didn&#8217;t notice the humor in the above list of option, I was being over-dramatic.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Life Happens<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As you can see by my example, the biggest challenge here isn&#8217;t that I can&#8217;t get the Facebook game to come up on my computer.  The biggest challenge is how I choose to respond to the situation.<\/p>\n<p>Being human, we all have the ability to choose our thoughts, feelings, actions, and results.  <\/p>\n<p>So what if the computer doesn&#8217;t work the way I expect it to.  Maybe my expectations were unrealistic.  <\/p>\n<p><strong>Experiences Shape Us<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What I want to focus on is that today I am becoming the person I will be tomorrow.  In that light, some of the questions I may ask are as follows:<\/p>\n<p>How does this change my goal?<\/p>\n<p>What options are there?  <\/p>\n<p>What is within my control?<\/p>\n<p>What is beyond my control?<\/p>\n<p>Is there someone who can help me?<\/p>\n<p>What do I want to see happen?<\/p>\n<p>And then, when you are not in a fragile emotional state (it&#8217;s okay.  We all have those moments.), then make a decision and move forward.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever decision you make is going to be the right one for you. You just need to trust that little voice to guide you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A Personal Note<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>May I please get a little personal here? <\/p>\n<p>If I had something happen, like the example above, I&#8217;d also ask one more question.<\/p>\n<p><u>What&#8217;s it worth?<\/u><\/p>\n<p>Is dealing with the &#8220;small things&#8221; really worth all the drama in order to become the person I want to be tomorrow?  Is this dream of mine worth whatever it takes to make it happen for me?  <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve heard two things about following your dreams.<\/p>\n<p>First, one who chases two rabbits catches none.<\/p>\n<p>Second, if it isn&#8217;t worth the pursuit of a lifetime, then it isn&#8217;t worth your time.<\/p>\n<p>We each will come to points where decisions must be made.  The decision to quit <del>usually<\/del> (I&#8217;m gonna say always unless someone can give me one example where someone accomplished their goal without doubting themselves or their abilities during the journey) always happens <strong>before<\/strong> the results we dreamt of become a reality.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So, if you&#8217;ve been following along in this exciting journey, you know we talked recently about charting your course. Setting Sail As sometimes happens, More often than not, once you&#8217;ve decided what you are moving towards and start moving that way, &#8220;stuff happens.&#8221; Having a plan and taking action isn&#8217;t enough. 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