{"id":273,"date":"2014-08-07T13:12:18","date_gmt":"2014-08-07T19:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rachelbock.com\/blog\/?p=273"},"modified":"2014-08-07T13:12:18","modified_gmt":"2014-08-07T19:12:18","slug":"what-are-desired-outcomes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rachelbock.com\/blog\/what-are-desired-outcomes\/","title":{"rendered":"What Are Desired Outcomes?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hello!\u00a0 Sorry for not posting last Friday.\u00a0 I was experiencing technical difficulties.<\/p>\n<p>So&#8230; anyways&#8230; Where were we&#8230;. Ah, yes&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Quick Review<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In a previous article, I wrote about &#8220;<a title=\"How Do I Measure My Progress?\" href=\"http:\/\/rachelbock.com\/blog\/how-do-i-measure-my-progress\/\" target=\"_blank\">How Do I Measure My Progress?<\/a>&#8221; There was some great feedback on that conversation.<\/p>\n<p>After I thought about it some more, I realized that measuring progress is an ongoing kind of thing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When Do I Measure Progress?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Whenever you have a gap between where you want to be and where you are.\u00a0 For example, I want to be on a beach reading a book.\u00a0 Right now, the gap is that I&#8217;m sitting inside because the clouds are watering my garden now. (I prefer to be optimistic.)<\/p>\n<p>Clearly, this chair is not a warm Hawaii beach and those sounds are not Whales.<\/p>\n<p>The gap between thunder and lightning and the sounds of Whales is pretty big.\u00a0 In order to get myself to that lovely beach, I have to regularly measure my progress.<\/p>\n<p>No matter where you are with your business, whether you&#8217;ve been in business for decades or are just starting out fresh today, there will (almost) always be a &#8220;next step&#8221; if you so choose to take it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>What is &#8220;Regular&#8221; Mean?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It depends.\u00a0 (I know, you probably get tired of hearing me say that. But, it does.) Questions to consider that can answer that for you are<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How often you want to do course corrections?<\/li>\n<li>How frequently do you receive the information necessary to do course corrections?<\/li>\n<li>How close are you to your desired outcome?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For me, for example, I review &#8220;the gap&#8221; about once a week.\u00a0 And that review depends on knowing my desired outcome.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Okay, I&#8217;ve seen that three times so tell me already, What are Desired Outcomes?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It depends.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>(Did you know I&#8217;d say that?)<\/p>\n<p>Many people will refer to goals.\u00a0 I learned along that way that usually goals are hit or miss.\u00a0 There are no other options.<\/p>\n<p>I also learned that what you focus on (or desire) expands.\u00a0 And, since I want to focus on the outcomes that I want in my life (again, choosing the positive \/ optimistic instead of focusing on what I&#8217;m afraid will happen &#8212; that I don&#8217;t want happening), I call them &#8220;Desired Outcomes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A desired outcome is whatever it is that your heart tells you.\u00a0 For example, I thought about you today and decided that I wanted to talk to you again since I hadn&#8217;t written in almost two weeks. (Again, please accept my apologies for that. I&#8217;m very sorry.)<\/p>\n<p>Once you define where you want to &#8220;end up,&#8221; it&#8217;s time to chart your course and set sail.\u00a0 With that said, I&#8217;ll say ta ta for now (TTFN) and let you think about what it is you really want.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The 5 Whys<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Oh, which reminds me&#8230; Caution: Be warned, this could get painful!\u00a0 Sometimes the truth hurts.<\/p>\n<p>One of the things I&#8217;ve learned along the way is to ask &#8220;Why&#8221; at least 5 times. This helps to uncover those unconscious motivations that you may not be aware of.\u00a0 If you want something and can explain 5 times &#8220;why?&#8221; then you may just learn something about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Stay tuned as we continue exploring accomplishing desired outcomes more next week.\u00a0 Next up&#8230; Charting our course!<\/p>\n<p>Take care!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello!\u00a0 Sorry for not posting last Friday.\u00a0 I was experiencing technical difficulties. So&#8230; anyways&#8230; Where were we&#8230;. Ah, yes&#8230; Quick Review In a previous article, I wrote about &#8220;How Do I Measure My Progress?&#8221; There was some great feedback on that conversation. 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